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Christians Confess

It seems fitting after my post yesterday that I participate in this meme begun by John Smulo (thanks to an invite from Erin at Decompressing Faith). It’s also fitting because I helped him (in a very, very small way) with the original website. If you’re unfamiliar with Christians Confess, please check it out. John is the torch bearer for many of us who are grieved with the face of the church in the public square today. He created the site as a forum for Christians to apologize for the wrongs they see the church and other Christians doing both today and in the past. It is also a place for those who do not consider themselves Christian to tell their stories. It’s a great place and I encourage you to visit.

First the rules of the meme:

  1. Apologize for three things that Christians have often got wrong. Your apologies should be directed towards those who don’t view themselves as part of the Christian community. Alternatively, apologize for things you personally have done wrong towards those outside of the church.
  2. Post a comment at the originating post so others can keep track of the apologies.
  3. Tag five people to participate in the meme.
  4. If desired, send an email with the link to your blog post at the Christians Confess site, giving permission for your apologies to be added to the website.

Here are the things I’d like to apologize for … in no particular order.

Here’s the thing … it’s pretty clear that Jesus came to bring hope, healing and freedom and we, the church, his followers have sucked all the fun out of that. We’ve taken the hope out of hope and continued wounding the wounded and piled chains on slaves. I am so sorry.

For those of you who bothered to read up on Jesus, I know you read the wonderful stories about people flocking to Him and finding love. Or finding a miracle and you hoped that if you came to church you’d get some too. So you came with that last ember cupped in your hands, coming to find the God you’d read about and the love, treasure and the miracle. We stomped on it. I am mortified that we took your last hope and extinguished it. Lord have mercy. I am so sorry.

Jesus was Jewish and we forget that the roots of our faith lie in that rich ancient tradition. Isaac had a half-brother Ishmael who became the grandfather of Islam. We have much to learn from other faith traditions and other perspectives on God. S/He who created the universe may not be reduced to a linear equation and we demean Her when we do this. We have much to apologize to other faiths for and I am again … so very, very sorry.

I tag …. (drum roll … )

Doug at Perigrinatio
Patrick at Dual Ravens
Julie at OneHandClapping
Kievas at Sharing A Journey
Sally at Eternal Echoes

Like John and Erin before me, if you read this and wish to participate, just leave your link in the comments and I will pass it on up the chain. Everyone is welcome and encouraged to participate in this … I just picked some people who have circles of blog-friends who are different than mine.

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6 Comments so far (Add 1 more)

  1. Hey, I almost forgot my tagged responsibilities. I just posted.

    1. Patrick on August 13th, 2007 at 9:30 pm
  2. thanks sonja, very beautiful…

    4. Paul on August 9th, 2007 at 3:35 pm
  3. Thanks for the tag…I’ll get around to it when I quit procrastinating :)

    5. kievasfargo on August 8th, 2007 at 12:54 pm
  4. Thanks for the tag.

    6. Julie Clawson on August 8th, 2007 at 10:57 am
  5. Awesome. I love #3. So true, I think about it all the time.

    7. Erin on August 7th, 2007 at 10:44 pm
  6. Sonja,

    Thank you for your thoughtful apologies! Blessings.

    8. John Smulo on August 7th, 2007 at 6:50 pm

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  1. By Anonymous on August 13, 2007 at 9:27 pm

    Christians confess…

    An interesting website has popped up recently. It’s called Christians Confess. Basically, it’s a site where folks can apologize for the ways in which the Church has done wrong. The fact is that I believe there have been huge ways in whic…

  2. By Perigrinatio » christians confess meme on August 13, 2007 at 9:02 am

    [...] I have been tagged by Sonja (mend well, lady!) for a confession meme. Seems a very fitting meme – one in which we would answer with care and sincerity; for those who follow Christ should be marked as being a people who confess and a people full of mercy. The rules follow: 1. Apologize for three things that Christians have often got wrong. Your apologies should be directed towards those who don’t view themselves as part of the Christian community. Alternatively, apologize for things you personally have done wrong towards those outside of the church. 2. Post a comment at the originating post so others can keep track of the apologies. 3. Tag five people to participate in the meme. 4. If desired, send an email with the link to your blog post at the Christians Confess site, giving permission for your apologies to be added to the website. [...]